The importance of the personal story was perfectly illustrated to me last week when I was approached by a friend asking for help in getting back in the job market. She had a resume and a LinkedIn profile – fulfilling the absolute minimum requirements for any job seeker – but had no idea how to jump start her search.

Initially, she wanted my help pursuing a senior development position with a local non-profit and asked for some help modifying her resume to make her more attractive to the organization’s director. However, a quick perusal of her resume convinced me that no amount of creative writing could transform her background in the hauling industry and real estate management into anything remotely appropriate for the opening she wanted to pursue.

Not wanting to dash her hopes upon the jagged rocks of reality, I sat down with her to discuss her previous work experience and asked her to recount some of her most distinctive, enjoyable and memorable moments from her previous jobs. Initially, she started to recount the tasks she performed in each of her previous positions, but I told her to put the resume aside and just tell me stories that stood out in her mind.

She described the day she was hired at the hauling company, interviewed in a dank interior office, lit by a single bulb and crammed from floor to ceiling with paper. Unopened envelopes, bills, unsent invoices, even checks, piled on every surface and jutting out of every cabinet and every drawer. The office resembled a scene from Hoarders and presented a challenge to my friend. She offered to get the entire office and business organized and running efficiently and was hired on the spot.

She then spent weeks opening every envelope, sorting payables from receivables, meeting with bankers to discuss how the company would work with the bank from that day forward, met with the accountant to clarify how the books should be kept, contacted all the clients to resolve billing issues and personally handled all client service calls. She took over the business and made it run. And she loved doing it. She faced a herculean task that would have driven me into one of the cluttered corners, whimpering in the fetal position and dove into the project headlong.

I love her story. And she had others. How she expanded their client base from 65 clients to over 3000 by herself. And how she handled all client service calls and built enduring relationships because her clients never called their hauling company, they called Paula. She became the face and voice of the company and turbocharged its growth.

Once I heard those stories, I didn’t care what accounting program she used, or how they processed payroll. I simply trusted that she could face a task – no matter how complex – dive in and get it done. And I appreciate it more because she excels at the things that I avoid. And I know dozens of business executives like me who desperately need someone who can organize their business and keep it running smoothly day to day. Is there a title for that? I don’t know. But I know there’s a story to tell that will let Paula put whatever title she wants on her business card.

So, what are your stories? The ones that are so memorable you still remember the tiniest details? They don’t have to be your greatest successes, either. Frequently they result in failures that taught you permanent lessons. As long as they continue to inspire you, they’ll inspire your listener. So jot them down. They’ll separate you from every other job seeker who focuses on their tasks without sharing the technicolor details of their real accomplishments.

Now that Tim has laid the foundation for his job search, it’s time to raise his online profile by engaging and participating on the social media platforms so that others recognize his talent, intelligence and potential.

Most professionals start their social media participation on LinkedIn. It’s the social media platform most closely associated with professional pursuits and employment, so it makes sense for Tim to start there also. While Tim has completed the essential task of creating and populating his personal profile, even securing recommendations, the next step is just as important: join professional Groups to engage with others in your field.

Perform a quick search on your profession – sales, marketing, finance, healthcare – and review the list of Groups available. Narrow your search by inserting your city’s name in the search string. “Cleveland Networking” returns a much more precise list than the broader term “Networking.”

Then simply join some Groups. Visit their pages to see what types of conversations they’re leading. Find one that’s interesting to you and join the conversation. Provide your opinion, your insight and your expertise to the topic of the day. Become visible.

Do the same on Facebook. Search for professional groups that interest you, become a Fan and follow their posts, adding your own comments regularly.

If you’re new to Twitter, visit twellow.com where Twitter users are indexed by their professions and specialties. With a click you can follow the thought leaders in any field and start receiving their tweets in your twitter stream. Click over to their Twitter profile to see who they follow and who’s following them, then follow the same people and start engaging with these professionals.

It won’t take long for your name to be recognized and for you to develop relationships with successful, networked professional in your industry who have the capacity to inform you of job openings and introduce you to others who can help you in your job search.

This week starts a new real-life real-time experiment detailing the job search efforts of Tim Krenn, a Cleveland sales executive who like millions of Americans recently found himself out of work and in need of a new job.

Tim approached me a couple of weeks ago asking for advice on how to refine his resume and get the word out to prospective employers who might be interested in meeting him. The more we spoke, the more apparent it became that Tim didn’t just need a better looking or more adroitly phrased resume, he needed a job search strategy that encompassed personal branding, networking and effective use of social media.

I’ve known Tim for nearly 20 years, and I’ve worked with him professionally, so I know how talented he is, I could see the enormous amount of see the untapped potential that could be released with the right strategy and disciplined and consistent tactical execution.

We’re going to be documenting the advice that we provide to Tim, discussing why we’ve selected the strategies, platforms and tactics that we pursue, and track the results of our efforts until Tim lands a new job. It could be six weeks or six months, but we’ll be there to document the highs, the lows, the technical challenges, the mistakes and hopefully the ultimate success.

And as a starting point, I’ll share with you exactly how I started with Tim. Laying the social media foundation that will enable you to create and distinguish your personal brand, build your personal network and start engaging online with professionals who have the capacity to recommend or even hire you.

So, let’s start at the beginning and start building your social media persona.

First steps: create identities for yourself on the three big social media platforms: LinkedIn, Facebook and Twitter.

Don’t feel overwhelmed by the fact you don’t know how to use these platforms yet, you don’t know how to build a network and you think that Facebook is for teenagers and Twitter is time wasting text messaging. They’re all simply tools that you need in your job search toolbox right now. We’ll learn how to use them effectively later.

Second, find a terrific professional headshot that you can use on all your social media platforms. I want to make sure you heard that: pick one headshot to use across all the platforms. The same picture. This is all related to personal branding and your creation of a brand image that is unmistakably you.  And there’s a reason that I qualify the shot as a headshot, not a full body shot or a full torso. The photos on social media sites are often displayed at 40×40 pixels. That’s tiny, and if you use a large shot, you’ll be unidentifiable.

It’s also crucial that you select a photo that conveys the appropriate professional image. This means that your shot should capture you dressed as you would for work, not at a party or a wedding, not with your spouse or kids and not a grainy shot you grabbed from your laptop’s webcam. Your photo may be the single most important visual element in your entire personal branding effort, so take the time to get it right.

Third, and finally for now, think what topic you can write about and contribute professionally on your own blog. What’s your area of expertise? Where have you had your greatest successes? What aspects of your profession get you excited? Write down some ideas, because your professional blog will serve as the focal point of your job search, will provide the content you need to display your expertise, generate conversations, feed your social media channels and position you as a leader in your field.

So, get busy, start thinking, because tomorrow’s topic is going to be all about the blog as the central element in your job search.

For those of you still skeptical about the value of a thoughtfully written thank you note to those you interview with, I present the story of an anonymous Cleveland executive (let’s call her Jane Doe) who was told yesterday that she received a six-figure job over her competitors because she was the only candidate who followed up her interviews with individually tailored thank you notes to each person she met with.

In a job search that took nearly a year (not that unusual for someone seeking a six-figure income), and required dozens of interviews, the thing that stood out, that separated Jane Doe from the rest of the executive candidates wasn’t her degree (everyone has those), her experience (everyone has that, too), or her network (though her network helped her tremendously). What separated Jane Doe from all the other educated, talented and networked candidates was her ability to connect with each interviewer.

Her thank you notes were printed, not emailed, and were each tailored to include observations and concerns expressed by each individual interviewer. She didn’t send the same note to everyone. They checked with each other to make sure. And her ability to demonstrate her capacity to connect with each of them, to understand their priorities and concerns and to express how she would work with them to reach their personal and departmental goals made her unique. Made her stand out. Made her memorable. And made her necessary.

Assuming that her new position lasts for at least 8-10 years means that the value of her thank you notes will exceed $1 million. Not bad for a few hours work.

Are you doing the same in your job search?

So, what led to this huge inflation in value? Each item came with a unique story.

The auctions were part of the Significant Objects Project, an experiment designed to test the hypothesis that “narrative transforms the insignificant into the significant.” Or, put differently, the goal was to determine whether you could take an object worth very little and make it worth much more by giving it a story and endowing it with meaning.

The projects’s originators purchased 100 unremarkable garage sale trinkets for no more than a few dollars each and then had volunteer writers create fictional backstories for each item. They hypothesized that by attaching a creative story to the item, its objective value would increase.

They were right. The stories and associations attributed to each item increased its perceived value nearly 30x.

Job seekers can learn a tremendous lesson from this real world experiment.

When you write your cover letters and prepare for your interviews, you should prepare the stories that you’re going to recout that clearly illustrate your professional capabilities and experience. Rather than tell your interviewer that you have 14 years of product design experience, you should tell stories of the most successful, creative and rewarding projects you worked on. Rather than reciting your years spent in the accounting department, detail some of the specific successes you had working with your CFO to assemble and lead an internal team to solve complex billing issues.

Nobody remembers data, but everyone remembers compelling and meaningful stories. You won’t be just another computer programmer, but the guy who created the staffing iPhone app that was downloaded over 15,000 times. You’ll be the one who stands out, the one who solves problems, the one who’s 30x more valuable than the resume sitting under yours.

So, how can you build your personal network and increase your chances of finding your ideal job?  Here are some quick tips:

1. Create a blog that centers around your professional expertise. Then fill it with posts. Done right, your blog will be more effective than any resume in communicating the level of your professional knowledge and insight.
2. Make sure the name or tagline of your blog clearly conveys your special professional skills.
3. Create a series of posts that teach me something about what you do. Include pictures, diagrams, samples and even a portfolio of your most effective work product. No matter what your specialty, from driving a truck to running a hedge fund, there is plenty of material you can create to educate others.
4. Read and comment on other bloggers’ sites. Every day.
5. Let the other bloggers in your industry know you exist. Send them your posts. Start a conversation. And ask them to add your blog to their blogroll so the search engines find you and rank you.
6. Go to industry events. Go online and check the monthly schedules for all the professional organizations in your area. Then attend with a pocketful of business cards that includes all of  your social media contact information.
7. When you meet someone you’d like to work for, follow them on every social media channel. Read their blog, follow their tweets, read their LinkedIn profile. Learn everything you can about them so you can stay in touch and send them articles and links you know they’ll be interested in. Help them and there’s a good chance they’ll help you.
8. Follow staffing and recruiting professionals on Twitter, facebook and LinkedIn. Their blog posts and tweets are full of useful information that can help you refine your resume, hone your interviewing skills and alert you to job openings.
9. Clean up your online networking profiles to ensure that there is nothing embarrassing or potentially offensive. No photos of you drinking, smoking or engaged in any potentially disturbing activity. Untag yourself from any potentially offensive photos that exist on any of your friends’ photo pages. Remove any offensive or vulgar language. Then modify your privacy settings so your most personal information remains private and unseen except by your closest friends.
10. Search for and connect with similar professionals on all the major social media platforms. Start conversations with them, participate in online forums and contribute to their groups. Create a Twitter list that includes only these professionals so you stay focused like a laser beam.

Remember, by leveraging these social media platforms, you get a chance to reach not only your contacts, but the entire constellation of contacts that are just one or two degrees removed from you. And you never know who’s hiring.